PREPARING
  FOR CONTACT
  
  Seven Steps for
  Entering Species Adulthood
  
  by Lyssa Royal
  
  
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        thousands of years mankind has been looking up at the sky, imagining the
        wonders of the heavens. During that time, we've developed an
        extraterrestrial mythology filled with benevolent beings assisting
        humanity as well as jealous "gods" vying for the worship and
        control of humans. But all through our past relationship with
        extraterrestrials, we've never allowed an equal relationship between us
        to form. In one way or another, the human race has played the role of
        victims to extraterrestrial contact. With the
        development of the atomic bomb and other technological toys, humankind
        has entered a phase on the evolutionary scale where it could possibly
        destroy itself. Thus it becomes essential that humans learn the role of
        self-responsibility not only for themselves, but for the entire planet
        as a whole. Gone are the days when we were a child race. It is time now
        to enter species adulthood. Becoming
        an adult species has its challenges. Perhaps the biggest challenge is to
        act like an adult and seek out relationships with adult species from
        other worlds -- relationships of equals without the control dramas we've
        used for thousands of years in order to maintain the power of
        superiority. Though it may be challenging, we must begin to implement a
        contact program as a responsible adult species that empowers the people
        on Earth to be planetary ambassadors. Preparing
        for contact is a concept that we've never explored as a sentient species
        ever before. We have no role models with which to guide us. At some
        point, we are going to need to stop theorizing and take action. Soon it
        will be time to go "out in the field" and apply what we've
        learned. A
        planetary species who feels powerless and victimized (whether by its own
        bureaucracy or by an external force) may wait for contact to be forced
        upon it and never take action. However, what extraterrestrial
        civilization would want to make contact with a powerless, frightened
        species? The only ETs who would want to contact a planet filled with
        frightened souls would be those who want to take advantage of them by
        preying upon their fears. Unless we want to create that type of contact
        scenario, it is time to assert ourselves by reaching out not from fear,
        but simply from curiosity and excitement. The ETs have made the first
        step. Have we? Some
        would say that projects such as SETI and Voyager are our attempts at
        making contact. However, those projects were not joyously participated
        in by humanity; instead, they were funded and implemented by governments
        and/or private organizations who may or may not speak for the People. No
        single individuals or small groups (representing the People) have ever
        participated in those contact programs. Those projects, in a sense,
        speak the party line by assuming that an ET species will value science
        and technology (radio waves and space probes) over consciousness itself.
        Did those contact programs speak for you? Perhaps
        it is time to design a contact program of our own, based on our
        understanding of ETs, their reality, and the human consciousness.
        Already some visionary organizations like CSETI (founded by Dr. Steven
        Greer) have begun this immense task. But before a paradigm shift occurs,
        a large group of people must be willing to do whatever it takes to
        become planetary ambassadors--even if that means releasing old, safe
        belief systems and entering the world of the unknown in order to do so. As we
        prepare for contact, there several issues which need to be addressed
        before we can become an empowered planet of intergalactic ambassadors. 1.
        Acknowledge the Inevitability of Contact. It is time for the people
        of influence in our society to stop arguing whether ETs exist or whether
        or not a specific case study is real or hoaxed. Instead, we as a society
        can be better served by realizing contact is a high probability and
        beginning to prepare our selves and our people for the inevitable
        contact which occurs for any species entering adulthood. 2.
        Discover Personal Truths. The only truth that matters is the truth
        one finds within. This requires us to begin to form a solid personal
        truth about the ET phenomenon which is not based on polarity -- meaning
        that we don't simply categorize the ETs as being space brothers here to
        save us, or invaders here to conquer us. The truth lies somewhere in
        between and becoming self-responsible individuals simply means putting
        aside our judgments (based on our own emotions), cultivating a personal
        truth about the importance of contact, and carrying out our
        responsibilities to initiate contact in a dignified and diplomatic way. 3.
        Embrace Humanity. Opening positive, diplomatic communications with
        extraterrestrials who may be quite alien to us will be impossible unless
        we first take responsibility for our planet and the people upon it.
        Unless we seek to become a People, it is unlikely that extraterrestrials
        will wish to open contact with a group of fragmented and aggressive
        adolescents. We must seek to create an atmosphere of family on Earth. It
        is possible that even just beginning this process will be enough to
        shift the paradigm. 4.
        Interspecies Communication. We have several "alien"
        species here on Earth with which to practice our communication skills.
        It is unrealistic to think that contact with ETs will be achieved
        through the types of language and communication with which we are
        familiar. We will need to be prepared to enter a common ground upon
        which we can meet alien species. In the meantime, we can practice
        learning new methods of communication with the dolphins, whales, and the
        plant kingdom, as an example. This will prepare us to enter the
        unfamiliar landscape of communication with alien races. 5.
        Confront Our Fears. Until we confront our own inner and outer fears,
        we humans will continue to perceive ETs through the veil of our fears
        and thus distort their true reality. We must learn to come to peace with
        our own inner archetypes of dark and light, otherwise the ETs will
        simply become contemporary demons upon which we will project our fears.
        When we as a society and as individuals are willing to confront our
        fears, then we will finally be able to see the ETs for who they truly
        are. 6.
        Decompartmentalize Our Consciousness.
        Right now the human consciousness is segmented into the conscious,
        subconscious and unconscious minds. Many individuals who have had ET
        contact have stored memories of this contact deep within their
        subconscious or unconscious in order to maintain the sense of a secure
        reality. We must become willing to integrate these levels of our
        consciousness and face our frightening memories. Many have already begun
        doing this through regressive hypnosis. Once the human consciousness
        begins integrating and healing, we will be perceived by ETs as whole
        beings instead of fragmented ones. It is here where our fears will no
        longer overwhelm us. This is an empowering place where we can truly
        begin initiating a contact program which will benefit humanity and
        extraterrestrials in a profound way. 7. Reclaim Our Power. For thousands of years influential people and organizations have been dictating what the consensus reality should be. The time of dependency upon "authority" figures must now pass if we are to enter species adulthood. We must no longer wait for our government to reveal the ET bodies and crash debris it has before we believe solidly in the extraterrestrial presence. We must reclaim our power by beginning a contact program for the People by the People. We must begin educating a timid public on extraterrestrial issues, giving them responsible information. And most of all, we must stop the bickering and invalidation between researchers which only serves to "divide and conquer" the visionaries of the future. As we reclaim our power in this way, we become a global people ready to interact with our intergalactic neighbors. 
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Lyssa Royal is an internationally known author and channel. Her books, published in seven languages worldwide, include: Millennium: Tools for the Coming Changes, Preparing for Contact, Visitors from Within, and the classic book The Prism of Lyra. Lyssa has served as the Arizona coordinator for the Center for the Study of Extraterrestrial Intelligence (CSETI) and has conducted field research into the contact phenomenon around the world in Japan, Australia, Canada, Germany, England, South Africa, Mexico, Peru, and the USA.